trouble

hello fellow frienz...
i'm totally fed up n feel trouble now
currently,my family is in a mess
totally messing up
help..
y i have such a father???!!!
who like 2 quarrel at every time
now my house is juz like a boom
dun noe when goin to explode

actually,the story is like that
recently our family is finding a new house
n my father juz dun has a little penny in his acc
but he juz requires my mum 2 tk out 200k
hey,come on
y u think mum is like very rich?
haiz....
my father is that type of person that totally dun noe how to manage money
n he will juz spend in many unnecessary thg as he gt some money in his pocket

eg.(i)borrow money to others
(the person did not wan 2 borrow money from my father,
but is my father who automatic take the money to them)
hey,he juz like a santa claus,why did not wan 2 give me?

(ii)buy a new car n sell it out within 5months,
which made us lost nearly 10k

(iii)called my mum to give him FULL CASH to buy a camry/accord
luckily,we have succeeded to stop him

that's why he still saves zero money in his bank acc
after doing business for 4years plus plus
n the business is profitable as me also involve in manage the business money
n everytime when he end up with no money,
he will come bec n quarrel with my mum again
said that all the business income was taken by my mum
hey,plz la
is my mum who manage the whole business
why cant she even to take a small amount of salary??!!
n he juz sit aside everytime n dun even wan 2 help us
no wonder how busy we are..
that's why i have to help my mum whenever i'm free
if i refuse to help, my father will chase me out from home@@
wat i m telling is the truth as i have been chased out once b4
that's why i cried out myself b4 when there was a college girl
criticized me that i dun wan 2 mix with them n have no friends in college
hey,i have no choice but to work
i cannot like others n "u",can have ur own free time during weekends

anyway,now he wan 2 buy a house which is worth almost 400k
n now he wants my mum to take money out
but he wont pay a single cent
n somemore..he requires to put his name n my mum name together of the house
how come there is such a free lunch in this world??!!!
now my mum cant take out such a large sum of money
thus,that's y my father now like a mad person
i juz could not understand him why he wants to buy such a expensive house
which is cant afford by us...
according to the banker,we need to pay nearly rm2500 installment per month
hey,that's a big amount,k?

now really dun know wat to do
juz now i also skip my tuition class
as my family is too messing
my father scold my mum till the whole neighbourhood can hear
n she was sitting there crying n crying
how can i leave her there alone??!!
haiz...messed up
if my mum choose to leave this house
i will the first person who raise the hands up
although i may lose the chance to study degree
i'm also feel that its worth
so jiejie,hope u can c this post
n called bec to comfort mummy
n agree with her whatever path she chooses
she has been tolerate with him almost 23years
this is enough for her

while we are small,we were very poor
so father always quarrel with mum regarding to the money stuff
but now they have a business
have plenty of money ade
also quarrel at all the times
i'm totally fed up n speechless
help us,GOD=(
give my mum energy to let her continue her life happily
comfort her n save her life..